"Mom! Stop I can do it!"
The words of independence...and also the words every mom hears at some point.
I know she can do it, it is just scary letting go as a parent and letting them do things on their own.
And when it comes to my little girl climbing a tree...yikes!
Yes! That is Tessa half way up the tree! |
However, I have to admit that when I watched her climb, well once I stopped holding my hands up to catch her or give her a boost and mainly because she kept saying "Mom, stop, don't help! I got this! " Wow! so wise for an 8 year old! Anyway...once I stepped back, took a breath and really watched, it was actually pretty amazing seeing her face just light up the higher she got!
Her smile was ear to ear! |
But she didn't...she climbed that tree just like I did as a little girl. As I thought back to that time I remember...it was fun to see the world from a different perspective.
I think part of me doesn't want her to grow up so fast, and the other part of me wants to watch her to make these awesome accomplishments. I shared with Tessa about the tree in our backyard and how I used to climb it everyday. Her simple response... "Really?!" with a big wide grin was just what I needed. I did leave out the part about hanging upside down from the branches though. Look it's tiny steps alright!
I noticed that as she climbed up the tree and then down the tree and then back up the tree she would look up first to see where she was going to go next, where to place her foot or where she would be able to peek out at me next. It made me grin and beam with pride just knowing I had raised a young lady that could figure it out on her own.
Who knows....maybe tomorrow...I might just climb that tree!
Say WHAT Mom?! Bahahaha |
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